Corporate Leaders Must Look to Their Subordinates for Coaching Help
By David Tighe
As managers become more senior, they start to run out of peers and superiors on which to rely for effective coaching. Mentors still abound, but mentors do not truly “coach” you, as Harvard Business School Professor Robert Kaplan notes in a recent leadership article published by McKinsey and Co. Mentors usually serve as sounding boards for advice, and rely on input from you, the manager, about the situation that is challenging you.
That information naturally comes through your mindset filters, which limits the mentor’s ability to spot and correct your flaws or errors. Coaches truly observe you in action, and critique you from their own perspective, offering more “tough love” than a mentor can.
When third party coaching feedback gets scarce
So, as middle managers rise up into the senior hierarchy, true third-party coaching feedback on their performance gets scarce. The issues:
- Fewer superiors above them actively observe how they go about their business.
- Fewer peers around them are willing to act collegially and provide useful criticism that could help make them better.
- This is both because there are: too many like-minded people among their peers, with similar habits and mindsets, which drains the senior management pool of perspective.
- Too many competitors for a narrowing funnel of promotional opportunities. Helping a colleague can hinder a manager’s own chances, naturally reducing the incentive to help unless top management sets a strong collegial example (a rare occurrence.)
As you rise in the organization, people become less connected to you
Plus, by the time you become a senior executive, you have a set of experiences from your own successful career that form your leadership mindset. Earlier in your career, you probably set up coaching and mentoring relationships using people senior to you which helped you climb those career rungs. As you rise, those people become less connected to you. Perhaps they are now subordinate to you. Perhaps they lost out to you for a new position, and moved to another company.
As Kaplan notes, “many executives find that as they become more senior, they receive less coaching and become more confused about their performance and developmental needs. They may also become increasingly isolated from constructive criticism-subordinates do not want to offend the boss and may believe that constructive suggestions are unwelcome and unwise.”
Here is the paradox: To rise up the ranks, you naturally focus sideways and upwards, adopting and adapting the vision coming from the top, running friendly competitions with peers, and managing staff to meet your career goals. Now that you have made it up the ladder, you need to change that heretofore successful mindset of looking up for counsel and direction. With fewer “up” options, you need to start focusing down for advice and ideas.
This concept sounds a bit nuts to newly senior managers, but it is the key to their long-term success.
Don’t overlook developing mutually trusting subordinate relationships
Kaplan states: “At this stage of their careers, they may not have focused sufficiently on developing mutually trusting subordinate relationships that would make getting feedback and advice a lot easier.”
Too frequently, when these executives ultimately do receive feedback in their year-end reviews (as part of a 360-degree-feedback program, say) they are surprised to receive a lot of criticism about leadership, communication and interpersonal skills. “These leaders may even learn, often too late, that the various criticisms and concerns have been widely discussed among their subordinates for an extended period of time without them being aware,” notes Kaplan, a comment I strongly agree with based on my own coaching experiences.
Frankly, when working with senior executives I spend a lot of time getting this upward-looking mindset uninstalled and replacing it with a more productive approach that embeds the spirit of the 360 Review into their daily leadership routines.
360 Reviews are very successful
Here is what I mean by the 360-Review Spirit:
When you run a 360-degree review, everyone above, at your level and below you get to offer frank assessments of how you have been performing. These reviews are predicated on the idea that the formally structured environment encourages people to be frank, while remaining constructive in their input. The underlying assumption is that people (subordinates especially) will not share feedback that is ‘negative’ without clear institutional protection against retribution and need this special artificial construct to let their guard down.
So, once a year a lot of managers find out that while they may be managing tasks and projects well, they are failing as leaders. This creates all kinds of angst and hurt feelings. People react negatively to the whole process, and hurry back to the culture they feel more comfortable in, whether or not it is productive.
If 360-degree reviews are so effective, it strikes me as a great idea for senior management to move heaven and earth to embed such an open, sharing environment directly into the corporate culture. It’s hard work to establish full employee engagement into the mindsets of employees and their managers, but the 360-Review Spirit would have huge organizational advantages in fostering a proper leadership culture.
Goals to shoot for include:
- Signal strongly that true feedback is valued and desired, as long as it is forward-thinking and action-oriented. No snipping. sniping and blame-laying.
- Eliminate the mindset that seeking help from subordinates signals weakness as a leader. Replace it with one that admits a leader doesn’t know everything, and relies on trusted lieutenants to inform him or her of the true nature of events, and the full range of options for moving forward.
- Assume that everyone wants the best for the organization, and will contribute at a high level if the organization finds a way to publicly value that contribution consistently.
- Break the mindset that senior managers know more than subordinates. They don’t. Perhaps they did at one time, but that time is gone.
A great leader knows that his or her subordinates know far more about the current state of customer mindsets and potential than senior managers (and perhaps even all of them put together!) They should not wait for formal review processes to gather input on job performance and goal-setting.
The ongoing goal for every senior manager must be to create subordinate relationships based on the three core tenets that we focus on in embedding a full-engagement mindset:
Unshakable Trust:
- Encourage full and open truth in meetings.
- Expect the best of everyone. Everyone you hire is talented. Challenge them to make full use of their skill sets.
- “Tuesday is Tuesday” (Stick to your commitments.)
- Take true accountability for your own results, good and bad.
The Pursuit of Truth:
- Take genuine interest in the truth at all levels.
- Center conversations on how to be “the best we can be,” not just meeting our targets and beating our competition.
- Look way beyond the metrics and never settle for “good enough.” Pre-set goals are pretty arbitrary, and may blind you to potential lying beyond those limits.
- Encourage authentic, transparent and complete two-way communication from bottom to top, by celebrating the truth whether good news or bad.
Communication that Counts:
- Keep communication “next action” focused. No dwelling or looking backwards!
- End all communications with mutual commitment to action.
- Check up on commitments, see that delegations are fulfilled, and run meetings with a forward focus on decisions that help to complete the commitments. No updates that could be sent by e-mail!
- Instill a belief in everyone that every communication improves the relationship.
Focusing on embedding these three habits as a day-to-day mindset will generate better feedback, particularly from subordinates, that will help you to materially improve your personal performance, often in 90 days or less. This, in turn, should support your future career ambitions, because you will be basing future decisions more on the truth than on the hunches that may come from your own past experiences. And your team will be 100% behind you, pushing you up the ladder.
Here is a link to Robert Kaplan’s article. Registration is required, but it’s free.
David Tighe has been helping his clients create fully engaged employee teams and more effective leadership skills among executives and middle managers since 1987. He authored Bovo-Tighe’s highly effective Foundation of Excellence approach to employee development that has been generating measurable ROI for clients by focusing relentlessly on upfront problem diagnosis and long-term sustainability with every client engagement. Bovo-Tighe also offers a performance guarantee to back up their performance claims, a rarity in the employee development industry.
Find out more about Bovo-Tighe, its Foundation of Excellence approach and its performance guarantee at http://www.bovo-tighe.com.
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