Leadership Coaching: No Whining in the Workplace
By Mike Krutza, Co-Author, Jodi Wiff
No Time For Nonsense In The Workplace
Your workplace is an area with lots of objectives to meet, tasks to accomplish, undertakings to resolve, and deadlines to beat. Along the way, you face lots of hindrances. You undergo a lot of distractions, problems, and challenges. With all these in your head, you could not afford to think about the little issues in your workplace. But, you will be forced to face a bothersome concern about tireless whiners when you overhear their nonsense whatnots.
The sickening cry of a whiner is something you do not want to hear in the middle of your intense operation. But you, as a leader, may not be able to control this expressive act of your employee when he is in such an annoying mood. You are absolutely aware that if this whining persists in a couple of minutes, everybody will be distracted. You will be furious. Your work will be disrupted. Things will be in chaos.
How To Deal With A Workplace Whiner
- There are several ways to deal with whiners. First is that you don’t feed the dog. Never fall in the trap of that individual. If you express sympathy to a whiner’s sentiments, he or she will just realize that whining is a good trick to attract your attention and lure you. You become easily influenced and fooled. The whiner will redirect you, and control you instead. Whining is not a therapeutic coping mechanism. You must not tolerate this in your area as much as possible.
- Second, impose clearly that if someone unconsciously whines, let them know that it may only be allowed at a tolerable level. Let the whiner know that it should last only for several seconds, with no annoying repetitions nor infuriating mumbling, nagging, etc. Call their attention right away. Correct the wrongful act, so that you will show your employees that you are not happy with the whining.
- Lastly, as a leader, it is best that beforehand, oblige everybody to not engage at all in whining. Your workplace is not a whine zone. Let everyone understand that you are serious and strict about it. You have lots of things to do. Tireless complaints will not help any of you to finish your goals.
For a whiner, it becomes helpful for them to do their tasks if he mumble, nag, or whine while working. These acts become their way to resist but still persist. It is their way to express themselves. But for everybody else, a whining co-worker is a nuisance. It does not bring any good to the success of the organization, but rather a headache.
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Jodi and Mike specialize in executive coaching with individuals and teams. http://lighthouse-leadership.com
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